I didnaEU(tm)t really notice what was happening at first but towards the end of 2009 It became apparent she was spending a lot of time on her laptop, coming to bed after me and a lot of real life tasks were not getting done. The children are getting older and starting to aEU~fly the nestaEU(tm) and my wife found Evony on the internet. That is I think when this really started. Our plan was to capitalise on the income to allow us to move house and hopefully retire early. Then my luck ran out at the end of 2008 and I had to accept another position abroad that meant working month on, month off. I then managed to find a series of jobs for about 8 years that got me home every night but the hours were still long and involved being on call 24/7. She has never really had any interests of her own outside the children and a few part time jobs despite me trying to encourage her (probably not surprising, as she never had much time!). She always managed the home and kids well and rarely complained. That certainly did not make my wifeaEU(tm)s lot easy raising the children mainly on her own. Throughout our marriage I have mostly been employed on jobs that have taken me away from home either Monday to Friday or for weeks at a time. I have not been the perfect husband as I have often put work and sometimes other interests before those of my wife and children, not quite a case of working hard and playing hard but more not concentrating properly on giving my wife the support and appreciation she desired or deserved, although I didnaEU(tm)t see it that way at the time, I was concentrating on earning a living. Where to start? Well I guess at the beginning except IaEU(tm)m not really sure where that is! First maybe some background I have been married to my wife for 23 years and I suppose like any couple we have had our ups and downs. Here is the start of my story - who knows how it will end? I thought my situation could be managed and resolved but now after 12 months of anguish it is clear it is out of control. I found this site maybe six months ago and found the posts really interesting and helpful but up til this last week have never posted anything.
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